Weddings can be a hectic time with the dress-shopping, venue-finding, bridesmaids to organise and flowers to choose, but you have to make sure he’s involved too. This is a special journey for the both of you, so be mindful that you are both being cared for.
Many people associate weddings with Brides and what they have chosen or how they are feeling, Grooms are more than often left out of this thought. This is as much of a stressful and thought-provoking time for the Groom as it is for the Bride. This is a change in both of your lives, emotions will be high so take a step back and rather than looking toward the end result (the big day), just breathe…..Be in the moment. This man is going to be your Husband and you will be his Wife! Crazy, right? Husband and Wife!
A lot of the time, men will take a step back from the organising and become elusive so you can take charge and do what you want to do, they think a nod of the head is an opinion, just to make life easier.
Men won’t tell you this, but they really do want to be involved, they want to be apart of it too.
The best thing to do is to have a good natter every now and again to see how he is feeling and what his opinions are. It’s easy for the Groom to feel left out of his own wedding, make sure this isn’t your Husband-to-be.
The best way to prevent any such thing happening would be to hire a Wedding Professional a.k.a ME! I really believe that both the Bride and Groom should have what they want at their wedding, or definitely a good, well-blended mix of both.
In our first initial appointments, I will really get to know the both of you so I can fully understand your characters and what it is you really want from your wedding. This is done through face-to-face meetings, questionnaires and fun games to play – to see what you are really made of!
And then, well, you can sit back, relax and watch your wildest wedding dreams unfold. x